Oct 172011
 

BoWilliams.com is five years old today!  Wow, I can’t believe it.  This is the 1,824th post I’ve made.  Wow, I can’t believe that either.

(That’s very, very close to a post per day, by the way.)

I think I’ve said before that I started this blog on the shallowest of whims, with no expectations of any kind.  It’s such a part of me now.  It’s therapy; it’s goofy fun; it’s whatever else happens, I can always go blog.  It’s sparked some marvelous relationships for me.  As clichéd as I’m sure it sounds, it’s helped me with self-discovery to a degree that I couldn’t have even contemplated.

Facebook has been really, really tough on old-school blogs like this.  I think that for a lot of people, it occupies the space these once did.  That riles the contrariness in me.  That makes me think it’s that much more important to keep going.

Of course, blogs without readers are journals.  This is definitely a blog, and you, ladies and gentlemen, make it so.  Thank you so much for reading BoWilliams.com.

Onward!

 Posted by at 6:01 pm
Mar 232011
 

So I told you about Christians Gone Bad.  Well, our pastor had a bit to say about Christianity and homosexuality last Sunday.  That I can recall, it’s the first time he’s done so in the nearly four years we’ve attended Good Shepherd.  I do believe it’s one of my favorite messages ever, embodying what I love most about our church—a genuine, sincere, and practiced emphasis on love and service, at the expense of divisive (and frankly, ultimately irrelevant) issues.

Want to hear the sermon yourself?  Check it out here.

I have no moral and/or religious dilemma about homosexuality.  I am at peace with my belief that God does not look unfavorably upon gay people for their gayness, and have been for decades.  I simply can’t resolve such a characteristic with who I know Jesus to be.

David hit that in terms of highlighting the words and deeds of Jesus, but he went further.  Know how many times Jesus denounced those outside the church?  Zero.  Know how many times the Bible directs Christians to denounce those outside the church?  Zero.  Is homosexuality sinful?  Not our call, boys and girls.  But, if we are conflicted about it, we should “err” on the side of inclusion and love.

(I’ll add this myself:  know how many times Jesus mentioned homosexuality?  Zero.)

Christians in general have earned a widespread perception (to the tune of 91%) that we are anti-gay.  We can talk about extremists’ and/or vocal minorities’ roles in generating that, and maybe even get a modicum of traction with such a claim.

However, the bottom line is that if we did a better job emulating Christ, that never would have happened.

 Posted by at 8:55 pm
Jul 272010
 

I was five years old on July 4, 1976. The American Bicentennial was a very big deal.  My whole world turned red, white, and blue.  The stars and stripes were everywhere.  The United States of America was 200 years old, and you couldn’t be conscious and miss that fact. That sounds like a long time—hell, [...]

 Posted by at 10:42 pm
May 022009
 

I started writing about this a couple of times, and just couldn’t.  Absent tonight’s thoroughly satisfying resolution, it was probably going to stay that way. We couldn’t find Oliver Wednesday morning.  Worse, we didn’t really realize he wasn’t in any of his usual hidey-holes, and wasn’t coming when I rattled the laser pointer in the [...]

 Posted by at 12:15 am
Mar 242009
 

Uncle Larry was my mother’s younger brother.  He was killed in a car crash on Christmas Eve, 1983. I have many happy memories of the short time I had with him.  He took Jenny and me to DisneyWorld.  He’s there in all of my favorite childhood beach memories (I still think of him every time [...]

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